Facebook spam for grinches like me

My friends know that I'm not a big fan of exposing myself on Facebook. Yet I still have an account and log on to see what my friends are up to, mostly when I'm bored or too tired to do something else. My "security" settings are as tight as can be, I rarely share anything, post anything or "like" anything, and I do not have applications installed. As far as Facebook is concerned, I'm a grinch.

And they don't seem to like that. Recently, they have seemed desperate to make me log on. After about not even more than 1 or 2 days of not visiting the network, I would get an email trying to lure me into believing incredibly important things had happened there while I was away. Somebody must have told them that they were bugging people and actually turning them off, because they're now acknowledging they'd been a little zealous in hitting the send button.

Facebook should be happy with me for a little while now: I actually logged on and updated my status today! What's on my mind? This very blog post.

How to protect yourself from spam when registering on a website

Access to information on the web is not as open, free and anonymous as one may think. How many times a day do you need to sign in to get to what you need or want? Making a plane or train ticket reservation, leaving a comment on a newspaper article or blog post, viewing your nephew's first birthday pictures on some picture sharing site, reading some article on pink eye on a medical site... all of these may require you to identify yourself. When signing up for a service on a website, you will most probably be asked for a username, a valid email address, and a password to access the service you are signing up for or to modify the information you have provided. As a follow up to last week's post, here are a couple of tips to help you keep your spam folder as thin as possible and protect yourself from private information dissemination.

• Username:

Unless you want to make yourself known as yourself, like maybe on LinkedIn or Facebook or on professional websites, there probably is no need to give out your real name in a firstname_lastname type combo. It is customary on forums and on "geek" websites, for example, to use a nickname. It doesn't need to be the one your grandpa gave you when you were little. Since your username will end up being the name you go by on that website, you may want to keep it bearable to go by and avoid stuff like "mofo99". Of course, there is no need to systematically hide yourself and be over-protective of your identity. It's simply a matter of deciding where and when it is appropriate for an online service, its administrators and fellow users (or for anyone else for that matter) to know your real name.

• Email address:

Create a separate email address that you can enter as your contact address on registration forms. Why give someone you don't know the address you give to your friends, or the one you give to your professional contacts? If needed, create filters to automatically forward legitimate correspondence to your main email address. In any case, keep your main email address as private and spam-free as possible by not using it to register to any online service. This is obviously one tip I ignored when I registered on the site that got hacked. There are lots of options out there to create the address you will be using to sign up for stuff online. You should be able to find what you're looking for in this list of the Top 17 Free Email Services, compiled by about.com. What about your password? Let's deal with that later! Do you have other strategies when you register on a website and need to provide a username and email address? Do you think I am being paranoid?